What's the Difference?

With the diversity homosexuality, or more particularly, gay culture has been offering these past few decades. One can't help wonder how massive our ideas have grown.

Take this for instance. I have heard of open relationships only when I stepped out of College. So way into my younger years I had no idea what it means. Relationship means Commitment so does it mean Open Relationship means Open Commitment? It doesn't mean anything to me. But anyway, I learned that Open Relationships are people who are committed to each other but can have sex with other people.

Oh Eym Dyi! Was my first reaction but I have no qualms with that, it's  their life, they make the decisions and make their lives more fulfilling.

Then, very, very, recently I stumbled upon an interesting person at a party. He looks single, flirty, and attractive. He nearly kissed most of the people at the party but little did I know that he's actually In A Relationship.

You know what some clubbers say when they tell you be available but unavailable? It's just like that. I actually got to know this person more and he revealed to me that he's nearly in a one decade relationship with his partner and their status is Semi-open Relationship.

Eh?! There's Open then there's Semi-open? What's next? Half-open and Partially-open? I honestly got a wee bit confused. I want to know the idea, what does a Relationship consist of when it's Semi-open?

He explained further that he and his partner have sex with different people only this time one must be present. A threesome or a foursome or even a dozen just as long as both are present in the scene/event/orgy party.

I haven't told you this before but I have a fetish for orgies when it comes to porn. They are absolutely what turns me on, couple that with a twink orgy and hell yeah!

But you see, I haven't done any of that. I haven't done any of those simultaneous multiple sex partner act. Yes, I haven't. Believe me. I'm not the Boy who Cried Wolf.

When I watch it, it turns me on but when it comes to the act of actually doing it with people, I don't see myself going that direction.

People say try it and then judge later but I'd rather be on the safe side and not get on the bandwagon. I'm fine with a one-on-one intercourse plus, I won't get confused who I would do or whatever goes in between.

So according to this friend of mine, it's just that, nothing really drastic or extraordinary with their set-up.

And from the way I see it, if they're completely comfortable with it then go with it. What suits both partners preference should do the trick. The world is getting bigger in a sense that ideas keep getting more broad, overlapping, criss-crossing, and being indefinite. Let's not close our ideas of what might could be for us. 

And yes, I have turned him down for a threesome. And I still collect porn orgy gay edition. Any links? :)